Who is not cheating....
This only my personal opinion...
Years ago, n so easy to cheat as is today. There was less resources.
Today all of us have smartphones with all kinds of chatrooms, apps, our email at a touch on a screen, social networks and the list goes on.
Previously people actually cared about their social status in actual social situations. Nowadays only importance is about how many followers you have.
Like seriously , who realy cares if you have 6 or 6 Million followers. You don't actually mean something to any of the 6 Million. It is just stats and "social" status.
Enough about that said. Back to cheating...
Relationships before was more involved. Couples weren't busy on their phones all the time and it was more difficult to have a relationship with a stranger.
You would actually have to meet someone to have an affair and really talk to them.
Now people just go ahead and send a nasty naked pic and there you have it.... Betrayal.
That other person doesn't really give a shit about you... Its all about the chase and the satisfaction of "winning".
And to top off the betrayal all phones have "locks" , password control, wipe memory, vaults etc to hide your sweet betrayal.
With a smartphone or any kind of internet at home your relationship is not safe at all.
Some people go looking for it and some people are just caught in the trap due to human nature and weakness.
Doesn't everybody feel great when one sexy hot girl or guy "wants" them and boost that fragile ego a little?
Mostly all of us love that attention and quickly fall inlove with a unreal FANTASY.
It doesn't always lead to one on one sex, but if it is possible it does.
In reality if you should date that other person it will become the same relationship you had with the lover you cheated on. Most relationships are the same. And 90 % of people need something more that FANTASY that doesn't really exist.
The best way to make a relationship last is to keep yourself away from temptations that is too easily found on the internet. Use your phone to phone people not to chat with cheap girls.
For example , I am a woman and I love to watch series on the internet. While I wait for the episode to load a add of a bored "housewife" comes up on the same page where she is already busy taking her clothes off.
For a man that is total temptation and tweaks their curiosity immediately. Unfortunately most men even the loyal ones will click on the add out of curiosity.
And like most things a chain reaction is activated... First maybe chat sites and light porn then it escalates.
Before you know it you boyfriend is addicted to porn or chatting with hotties or heaven knows what else.
You can do what you want to keep your hubby happy. But somewhere there will be a temptation lurking.
There just isn't enough filters and blocks to keep your relationship secure.
Like seriously , who realy cares if you have 6 or 6 Million followers. You don't actually mean something to any of the 6 Million. It is just stats and "social" status.
Enough about that said. Back to cheating...
Relationships before was more involved. Couples weren't busy on their phones all the time and it was more difficult to have a relationship with a stranger.
You would actually have to meet someone to have an affair and really talk to them.
Now people just go ahead and send a nasty naked pic and there you have it.... Betrayal.
That other person doesn't really give a shit about you... Its all about the chase and the satisfaction of "winning".
And to top off the betrayal all phones have "locks" , password control, wipe memory, vaults etc to hide your sweet betrayal.
With a smartphone or any kind of internet at home your relationship is not safe at all.
Some people go looking for it and some people are just caught in the trap due to human nature and weakness.
Doesn't everybody feel great when one sexy hot girl or guy "wants" them and boost that fragile ego a little?
Mostly all of us love that attention and quickly fall inlove with a unreal FANTASY.
It doesn't always lead to one on one sex, but if it is possible it does.
In reality if you should date that other person it will become the same relationship you had with the lover you cheated on. Most relationships are the same. And 90 % of people need something more that FANTASY that doesn't really exist.
The best way to make a relationship last is to keep yourself away from temptations that is too easily found on the internet. Use your phone to phone people not to chat with cheap girls.
For example , I am a woman and I love to watch series on the internet. While I wait for the episode to load a add of a bored "housewife" comes up on the same page where she is already busy taking her clothes off.
For a man that is total temptation and tweaks their curiosity immediately. Unfortunately most men even the loyal ones will click on the add out of curiosity.
And like most things a chain reaction is activated... First maybe chat sites and light porn then it escalates.
Before you know it you boyfriend is addicted to porn or chatting with hotties or heaven knows what else.
You can do what you want to keep your hubby happy. But somewhere there will be a temptation lurking.
There just isn't enough filters and blocks to keep your relationship secure.
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